She was told so.....

What was it go onnn read it... It was a normal day office and home. A colleague @ work called to inform that she would be sending pics of the sarees from her husband number and She said she does not have her number. Then the colleague forwarded the photos on watsapp. It was around 9 when the husband entered the house and she told him that tomorrow is ethnic day @ work. Then said that her friend @ work has send her pics to ask which is good. H: ohh she is looking good. S: she is married H: so what S: ignore She happened to drape the saree and asked the husband now it is his turn to take pic and forward her on whatsapp, so that she can forward the same to her friend. H took the photo happily without any issue and then she asked him to forward the same to her number so that she can send it to her colleagues husband’s number as she is not having whatsapp on her cell. H: so you are sending the pic to a guy S: both of them work in my team and they are married to each other H: but still how can you do this. S: what is there in it H sends a message on mobile “I don’t think what u r doing is correct, better think twice” S: just pushed all her joy with immediate replacement of fear and tries to put the kid to bed. H enters the room again and says “if you keep doing such things then I don’t what will happen after few days” thud the door closes She could not even think what just had happened and just put her kid to sleep. And then… Slowly started to think of the mellow drama which happened.. what did she do wrong. If she remembers she hardly gets any call from so called FRIENDS though she has many to call for at the end of the day to chat, share giggle and laugh and to bitch. But she never does her monthly prepaid mobile currency ends up only for internet which also she hardly uses. Then why was this lecture given - Is my H having a doubt on me - Or he is just possessive - What is this The next morning She replies thank you for the advise to the H and she gets a reply “2 late reply” what the heck “ she replies “Kill me for that will you” H: No reply… Will keep you posted if the episode continues… though I’m sure it will….

Favor Not To Ask For!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Favour not to ask for... The favor I'm talking about is my hubby dropping me till the main road for few days when I miss my cab to work. You all might be thinking "Why I'm referring this as a favour when my own husband is doing his work like any other/every other husband. hhhmmm (sigh) I need to go little round round round flasback..Let me first make it clear that I'm not intentionally getting late or not taking the cab. #1: I miss my cab as my cab drops by early morning in b/w 8:00am to 8:15am and definitely I'm not ready at this time. #2: We have a 2 year old who needs help in brushing his teeth, drinking milk, eating breakfast and cleaning potty and also not to forget give some morning attention/play/smile/hug/snuggle(compulsary). Who does it all ??? hellloooo "ME" #3: you might be wondering where the hubby is when all this is happening.. happily snoring in the bed :( (sad isn't it) I can feel you guys are already feeling bad about my situation. errr #4: My dad stays with us as my mother passed away few years back and he stays with us to take care of our little one and this is one big advantage I must say I'm having and off course a HUGEEE one to my husband to escape all the chores at home. Now to why I'm blogging about it... Yesterday my Hubbs was sipping tea and I happened to ask him to drop me as usual and there he was angry. "can't you tell me few mins back so that I will be ready". I just ignored it and we continued in bike. There was a huge traffic jam where everyone wanted to rush first on the road and the road was screaming loud "HELP" and as we know men they freak out very soon and hubbs was trying to find tiny spaces and drive and once he saw a free road he zoomed away and overtook a moving car and I said "to watch out and go slow"... mmyy myy was it a big mistake and he said "you better keep quiet as I'm driving" attitude sucks... (lump in my throat as I write this) Just coz you are driving I cannot sit and accept whatever you do/other person does. Just coz I asked you a favour to drop me you cannot make me feel that way. I wanted to ask him is it where are your morals? I'm really pissed off with all these things (not big differences that hurt, its the tinniest ones which make you think over the situation twice) So @ the end of yesterday I have decided not to ask a favor which is not worth taking.. (you agree with me).. Luv Jessi