She was told so.....

What was it go onnn read it... It was a normal day office and home. A colleague @ work called to inform that she would be sending pics of the sarees from her husband number and She said she does not have her number. Then the colleague forwarded the photos on watsapp. It was around 9 when the husband entered the house and she told him that tomorrow is ethnic day @ work. Then said that her friend @ work has send her pics to ask which is good. H: ohh she is looking good. S: she is married H: so what S: ignore She happened to drape the saree and asked the husband now it is his turn to take pic and forward her on whatsapp, so that she can forward the same to her friend. H took the photo happily without any issue and then she asked him to forward the same to her number so that she can send it to her colleagues husband’s number as she is not having whatsapp on her cell. H: so you are sending the pic to a guy S: both of them work in my team and they are married to each other H: but still how can you do this. S: what is there in it H sends a message on mobile “I don’t think what u r doing is correct, better think twice” S: just pushed all her joy with immediate replacement of fear and tries to put the kid to bed. H enters the room again and says “if you keep doing such things then I don’t what will happen after few days” thud the door closes She could not even think what just had happened and just put her kid to sleep. And then… Slowly started to think of the mellow drama which happened.. what did she do wrong. If she remembers she hardly gets any call from so called FRIENDS though she has many to call for at the end of the day to chat, share giggle and laugh and to bitch. But she never does her monthly prepaid mobile currency ends up only for internet which also she hardly uses. Then why was this lecture given - Is my H having a doubt on me - Or he is just possessive - What is this The next morning She replies thank you for the advise to the H and she gets a reply “2 late reply” what the heck “ she replies “Kill me for that will you” H: No reply… Will keep you posted if the episode continues… though I’m sure it will….

Favor Not To Ask For!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Favour not to ask for... The favor I'm talking about is my hubby dropping me till the main road for few days when I miss my cab to work. You all might be thinking "Why I'm referring this as a favour when my own husband is doing his work like any other/every other husband. hhhmmm (sigh) I need to go little round round round flasback..Let me first make it clear that I'm not intentionally getting late or not taking the cab. #1: I miss my cab as my cab drops by early morning in b/w 8:00am to 8:15am and definitely I'm not ready at this time. #2: We have a 2 year old who needs help in brushing his teeth, drinking milk, eating breakfast and cleaning potty and also not to forget give some morning attention/play/smile/hug/snuggle(compulsary). Who does it all ??? hellloooo "ME" #3: you might be wondering where the hubby is when all this is happening.. happily snoring in the bed :( (sad isn't it) I can feel you guys are already feeling bad about my situation. errr #4: My dad stays with us as my mother passed away few years back and he stays with us to take care of our little one and this is one big advantage I must say I'm having and off course a HUGEEE one to my husband to escape all the chores at home. Now to why I'm blogging about it... Yesterday my Hubbs was sipping tea and I happened to ask him to drop me as usual and there he was angry. "can't you tell me few mins back so that I will be ready". I just ignored it and we continued in bike. There was a huge traffic jam where everyone wanted to rush first on the road and the road was screaming loud "HELP" and as we know men they freak out very soon and hubbs was trying to find tiny spaces and drive and once he saw a free road he zoomed away and overtook a moving car and I said "to watch out and go slow"... mmyy myy was it a big mistake and he said "you better keep quiet as I'm driving" attitude sucks... (lump in my throat as I write this) Just coz you are driving I cannot sit and accept whatever you do/other person does. Just coz I asked you a favour to drop me you cannot make me feel that way. I wanted to ask him is it where are your morals? I'm really pissed off with all these things (not big differences that hurt, its the tinniest ones which make you think over the situation twice) So @ the end of yesterday I have decided not to ask a favor which is not worth taking.. (you agree with me).. Luv Jessi

Talking the talk

Today morning was as normal as everyday. I was cooking in the kitchen and I heard Mr.A say something and walked out to see Mr. A standing near the door and talking .... A: naanu hogthini (I will go) Me: yellige hogthiyaa (Where are you going ? ) A: Naanu periyappa manege hogthini. (I will go to uncle's house (my hubby's brother's house) Me: Yaake (Why? ) A: Ooota madakke hogthini (I will go to eat food) Me: Am not giving or cooking food A: naanu office ge hogthini (I will go to office) Me: in laughter riots My ohhh my he is picking up words and the languages very quick and as a mom I'm extremely proud as each mother and happy for him and for all for he is gem of a toddler and is unique is his own way... hhmmm huggs to my darling little smarty pants :) just love him a lottttt......... Luv jessi

A Story to tell......

the post title seems to be apt for the topic of today: Woowww I'm getting little creative in writing as well hhmmmm not that I'm not.......ok ok enough of my I can I can't.. For the actual story: On a New year's day everything seems to be fine as we started the day quite well surrounded by family members(In-laws) and there we were getting ready to head back home after breakfast(fill in the blanks. And we left for home and saw my F being in awful state @ 11:30 AM imagine... God I did not want to utter a word or pick a fight with him on this very begining of the New year and I went on to put Little A to sleep and continued cooking and other cleaning stuff. The day passed as normal as it often does and then my Hubbs came home @ around 8:00 PM and asked me if all was fine during the day, I said "Yes". Then he went of offering chocolates (left over after distributing to his office mates) and he offered them to my F as well and all was normal. Then @ 10:30 PM, my Hubbs happened to enter the bedroom and there was a thunder while closing the door which I was not sure why. Then he started to move around a bit and I woke with the sound and asked him if he had dinner. That was it. My Hubbs stormed with full anger saying "You and your F eat fresh rice in the afternoon and you have kept me the left over rice from yesterday afternoon. Me: Totally perplexed of what is happening here. "What left over rice". My Hubbs: "Ask your F to leave our house tomorrow morning. I do not want him to stay here. You guys eat good food and I'm eating left over. I will not eat food from tomorrow @ home. Me: "That is afternoon rice" After this I just did not want to continue the topic and started sobbing and went back to sleep. I sent one message to my Hubbs number quoting : "My Judgemental Husband" contents will not disclose. One more message followed "The rice in the same bowl does not mean it is the same rice of yesterday". Morning as usual I got started my chores and Hubbs got up no reaction and went to office. @ 11:30 I recieved a message from Hubbs " OK I'm Sorry, I overreacted yesterday. Forgive and Forget" After reading this " I will leave you guys to imagine...... I mean how can the guys have such things of their mind I really have no idea. I was wondering how are their brain wires connected. Heights first you blame me for something of which was not done and even thought of and then ask forgiveness and even forget it and that too on the Day 1 of the new year. Hats Off to my Hubbs and to all the men who have been wired the same. Luv Jess

The new learning

Its been a week since I started teaching my smarty pants " The 7 Days of the Week" and hey guys my little one has already knows it byheart... I'm really surprised how these things get into his head so fast... I started just this as he was already saying "andyman" for "Candyman" chocolate and thought let me try Sunday.. The first few times when I started to get his attention with the days he always said "Andymmmannnnn" Slowly but i started to tell him before putting him to sleep... He started repeating the days with me for 3 - 4 times... Then yesterday his Apatha and Periyappa had come by to visit Mr. Little A and I happened to show off little bit of my smarty pants new learning and asked him to say it.. Me: Acchuu please tell Sunday, Monday A: Andymannnn Me: ohhh plzz ammuu say Sunday, Monday A: Againnnnn Andymannnn Me: trying something different "What comes after Sunday, Aaryan? A: Monday Me: Delighted, Monday Amele(means next) A: Taaturdayuuu Everyone bursted out into laugh... And slowly A: sundaaayyy, Mondayyyyy, Tuoesdayyyy, Wenessssdayyy, Thorsdayyy, Fridaaayyy, Taaturddaayyyy, Finish. Wowwww that was good :)

Looking at my son: thinking, writing, typing and the output…

This I had drafted hhmmmm.... say around 7 months ago ... where? good question. @ my office desk, just thinking of my dear AA and My MOM... What can I wish now when I have lost you MOM... Only wish to be with dear AA and live fullest, explore more, learn more, give more.. wish to be a baby again to be with MY MOM, wish to be a baby again to be in my MOM'S ARMS, wish to be a baby again only to wake to SEE my MOM, wish to be a baby again only to EAT, PLAY and SLEEP, wish to be a baby again only to EXPLORE, wish to be a baby again to be INNOCENT, wish to be a baby again to be CURIOUS, wish to be a baby again to MAKE and BREAK, wish to be a baby again to AMAZE everyone around, wish to be a baby again to be ANGRY to make my needs CLEAR, wish to be a baby again not to know how to SPEAK, wish to be a baby again only to SMILE, wish to be a baby again to ACCEPT what I did, wish to be a baby to talk to the UNKNOWN, wish to be a baby to be I, ME, MYSELF… Luv Jessi

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I can start penning tying again yooooohoooo